As the Christmas season begins each year, I am always painfully aware of how much our culture pulls us away from the true meaning of this special holiday. I think it's most important to remember our family relationships and traditions. One of the things I have always liked about Indian Guides is the opportunity that it gives us to build our relationship with our kids. A key componant are the Indian Guide traditions that we observe, such as the AIMS Walk at the Cornfest campout. Similarly, the Christmas holidays are filled with many traditions that remind us of the importance of our family relationships, and each family has their own traditions that make the Christmas season special.
When our kids were younger - 2 - 5 years old - the Christmas season was a time for lots of Christmas art projects at Weekday School. The result was that we quickly were overrun with a large assortment of decorations and ornaments that the kids had made at school! What to do with all of them? Although Pam and I appreciated and cherished these projects, we also had our own idea of how we wanted to decorate our Christmas tree, and these kid-created ornaments, several of them very large, did not quite fit into our decor scheme. The answer? Two trees!!!
Each year during the Thanksgiving weekend, we put up a 6 1/2 ft. tall artificial tree in the family room - we call it the Kid's Tree. After I put the lights on it for them, they go to town, putting all the decorations they've made over the years on the tree. Many of these date back to 2 day 2's, and are not in original condition from being crammed into boxes, but they are rich with memories! It's really neat for all of us to look at these decorations and talk about Christmas's past or the things they used to do when they were younger. Then the following weekend, we pick up our big Fraser Fir from the YMCA - our Formal Tree - and put that in the living room and decorate it.
Is it extra work? Yes. Is it worth it? You bet!!! Instead of having the things our kids made stuffed in a box that might be opened 20 or 30 years from now (we have some of those things too), we get to relive some great memories each year at Christmas!
Yatahey!
Chief Bald Eagle
